Here is what I have discovered: generosity does not happen by accident. It requires planning. It has to be a goal, and it has to fit into your budget.  As we enter our fall generosity and stewardship campaign, I am inviting everyone who calls this church their home to return an Estimate of Giving card for the coming year. I consider this to be a spiritual practice and a step in our journey toward becoming generous like God is generous. The Estimate of Giving card is a starting point in that process, because it will allow you to spend time in prayer and conversation about your income and the ways you spend and save money.

 

By filling out this card, you will also be helping our church plan for mission and ministry in the year ahead so that we can keep investing in ministries for all ages here in Bellaire, remain faithful in our support of community ministry partners like CCSC and Amazing Place, and explore new avenues for ministry as the world around us changes. 

 

We don’t yet know all that 2022 will hold, but we trust that God holds the future, and we know that God continues to lead us in ministry here at the corner of Bellaire and Newcastle.  So I invite you to be praying for your church as we enter this next new season, and I invite you to be praying about your goals for generosity and how you will plan to support the ministries of Bellaire UMC with your prayers, presence, gifts, service, and witness in the year ahead. 

 

We will have a special time of commitment on Sunday, November 21 in both our digital and in-person worship services, and I hope you will make plans to be part of it. If you haven’t yet received an Estimate of Giving card by mail, you can pick up a copy at the church office during the week or in the Sanctuary on Sunday.

 

You can also submit your estimate of giving online by clicking the button below.

 

Thank you for all you do to support God’s work here at Bellaire UMC.  I am grateful for the ways you a living a joyfully generous life within our church and beyond, and I am honored to be your pastor. 

In Christ, 

Seann

2022 Generosity Letter

from Pastor Seann

2022 Estimate of Giving Card

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do Christians give?

Giving money to God through the church is a core practice of Christians the world over.  It has been since the very beginning of the church.  We give because giving is a way that we show obedience to God.  Giving is a way that we show love for God.  Giving is a way that we grow spiritually.  We sometimes think that if we can help people become mature Christians, then they will learn to give more freely.  That’s true, I’m sure, but for me it was the opposite.  Learning to give, helped me to become a more mature Christian.  Giving, you see, is an act of worship that helps us to grow spiritually.  That’s why we give.

And, as an act of worship, giving ought to be something we do on purpose.  That is, our giving ought to be intentional.  Through scripture, God guides us to the practice of proportional giving-that is, giving a particular percentage of our income.  You can’t give proportionally without thinking about it ahead of time, without being intentional.  The biblical standard of proportional giving for God’s people is ten percent-10% of total income.  The biblical word to describe that 10% is the “tithe,” which literally means “ten percent.”   It’s the portion that belongs to God, which we return to God as an act of obedience, love, and worship.

What is tithing?

 

Tithing–giving ten percent–is a concept that is familiar to many Christians, but for the vast majority of Christians in America, it is not standard practice.  Research reveals that Christians in America, though more affluent than ever before, are giving a smaller percentage of our income to the church and to charitable organizations than ever before.  As a whole, we currently give a smaller percentage of our income to the church than we did at the lowest point of the Great Depression.  Currently, mainline Protestants-Episcopalians, Lutherans, Presbyterians, and Methodists-give between 1.0% and 1.1% of total income to the church.  During the Great Depression, we gave 3.4% of total income.  I know all the reasons why folks might not tithe, but the reality is that the vast majority of professing Christians in America do not tithe.

Nonetheless, giving ten percent-a tithe-of one’s total income is indeed the scriptural standard.  It seems pretty simple on its face, but talking about tithing always brings up a whole bunch of questions.  Here are some of the most common ones I hear:

Am I supposed to give 10% to the church?  Or 10% total-to the church and any other religious, spiritual, or charitable organizations that are doing good work?  When the tithe was established, there was no such thing as the church that we know.  The tithe began among the Jewish people, our spiritual ancestors, and the 10% that God instructed them to give was to be given every year to support the priests.  In God’s design, the priestly families hadn’t been given any land, so the tithe of the people was to support the priests, the temple, and the worship of God through the faith community.  The way I read that, and the way I practice it, is that 10% of my total income goes to the church.  Additional support to other worthy organizations-like the colleges we attended, Methodist Children’s home, our conference’s Emerging Leaders Endowment-is over and above that 10%.

Another question I hear fairly often:  Is that 10% pre-tax or post-tax?  A pastor that I know tells the story of how her family began tithing.  Money had always been tight for her and her husband; they had some serious debt; full-time daycare payments-all the bills and stresses about money that you and I know well.  She had a powerful experience that convinced her they needed to get their spending under control and start tithing.  They didn’t know how it was going to work out exactly, but they were convinced and they just started giving 10% of each paycheck to the church she served.

They needed help making a plan for the future, so they enlisted a financial planner to assist them.  The financial planner arrived at their home with a folder full of plans about what a young family should be thinking about: saving for college, retirement, and life insurance.  He looked at their pay stubs, their credit card bills, and then asked about charitable giving.  This pastor was worried to tell him about their tithing plans, because having seen their financial situation, she was pretty sure he would point out that charitable giving made no sense right now.  Instead, the planner responded, “Is that ten percent before or after taxes?”  “After taxes, of course.  We’re religious, but we’re not crazy.”  “Well, that’s fine,” he said, “If all you want is an after-tax blessing.”

So pre-tax or post-tax?  Well, that’s a decision we have to make, but what I know is that when tithe pre-tax, we give more to God.  When we tithe post-tax, we give less to God.

A final question that I often hear about tithing: Isn’t the tithe an Old Testament concept?  Aren’t we free from those rules and regulations?  It’s true that Jesus never talks about the tithe.  He never asks or instructs anyone to give 10%.  Maybe that’s because tithing was assumed in that culture-standard practice.  I actually think that Jesus never talks about the tithe, because he wouldn’t ask his followers for something so small.  Following Jesus requires radical sacrifice.  When we say yes to Jesus’ leading in our lives, it’s an all-in sort of thing-not two percent or ten percent, not pre-tax or post-tax.  It’s all that we have and all that we are.  When Jesus visits Zaccheus, Zaccheus says that he will give half of his possessions to the poor.  Jesus says good job.  When Jesus encounters a rich young ruler, he says, “Sell all you have and give it to the poor.”  Jesus doesn’t talk about the tithe-10%-Jesus talks about fifty percent, one hundred percent.

A number of months ago, I heard a man tell the story of the connection between faith and money in his own life.  When he was a boy, his father taught him to tithe.  Every time he got an allowance or made money doing chores around the neighborhood, ten percent went into a jar that they would take to church as an offering.  Years later, after the man was grown, he was talking with his father one day, with understandable pride in his voice, he said to his father, “Dad, you taught me to tithe when I was a little boy, and I want you to know that I have tithed every year since then.  Even to this day, 10% of every paycheck goes to the church.”  And his dad looked at him a little puzzled and said, “Oh, son, that’s just where we start.  I thought for sure you would be giving more than that by now.

What should I do?

 

When you think about the connection between faith and money, I hope you’ll ask more than just whether you should give 2% or 10%, whether it should be pre-tax or post-tax.  I hope that you’ll ask: In what I’m doing, am I being faithful to God?  I hope that you’ll ask: How can I be more faithful to God?  I hope that you’ll ask: How can I be growing into the generous life that God wants me to have?

Jesus isn’t trying to convince us to follow some rule or requirement. Jesus has a much greater imagination than that.  Jesus has much greater plans for us than that.  Jesus isn’t calling us to get better at math and calculate more precisely what our offering should be.  Jesus is calling us to a life of unbridled generosity in which we are willing to part with everything for his kingdom.   I hope that for you, tithing is a part of that.  If not right now, then something you work toward.  Not because Jesus cares all that much about the percentage points, but because Jesus longs for us to be generous.  And tithing can help lead us to a generous life.